Hi All
I would like to share our success and experiences. I read on forums many problems of people in our situation. Greater expierience in these matters may say we are the exception to the rule, however:
After using a Russian dating site on and off for a year, I was contacted by a lovely Russian woman. We E-mailed each other for 12 months before we met. On our first meeting I was greeted at Moscow airport by the same smiling lady as in the photos she sent me.
We both had the attentions of scammers, yes they scam the Russian women too, not hairy Boris but Mr Umamabagoo's cousin from Nigeria in her case. We both came away relatively unharmed, you can get used to spotting a scammer, although I think I got a bit paranoid about it and must have rejected real people too.
My visas to Moscow were no problem at all, I even made a mess of filling in one immigration card. I was given the immigration card 5 minutes before landing by the stewardess and promptly told to fold the table for landing. The card was rushed and I omitted my nationality and place of visit, they still let me in and out.
I found the Russian officials had a military efficiency. Dont expect smiling service.
The teminal I used in Sheremetyevo airport is new, clean and tidy,all my flights ran on time. The largest queue I had in Immigration was 2 minutes. Usually straight to the desk for check in or security.
The Aeroexpress train is the best way into Moscow from Sheremetyevo airport, expensive compared to the local trains, about £8 each way
I registered my visa at the post office near my GF's flat. A tourist visa registered to a private address caused us no problems. The post office registration is free as of last January. Do not attempt to register a visa yourself unless you have a Russian with you with all their correct documents. The form is in Russian, even my name must be in Russian.
After my second visit I proposed to my GF and she accepted.
I am an acceptable French speaker and can get by in German and Spanish. I spent 3 months learning Russian, but was quite unprepared for the actual Rusian language and writing. The audio CD I used taught the language in such a way that my GF cannot help but smile or even giggle at my efforts. She describes it as "Russian with a quaint English accent"
The signs in Moscow were of little use to me as I could not read them. If it were not for the nice plaster ceilings in the underground stations being all different, I would still be going round on the circle line!.
In train stations the signs that said trains "To Moscow" and "From Moscow" only the first 3 letters of the word Moscow are the same due to the grammar.
My GF took her English test in April. She had only had her schoolgirl lessons from years ago. With what she learned from our correspondence and English from the Internet. She passed her IELTS with 2 grades higher than she needed.
The exam took all day, 9am till 7.30pm. She took a higher business level exam to make the most of her written English which is excellent. Although the requirement for UK visa is spoken only.
Her single minded determination to learn English is admirable, but she took no lessons.
We applied for a fiancee visa in April. My GF refused to use an agency, We completed the VAF4A form ourselves with me taking my documents over there. The form is submitted electronically so we both could access it and correct any spelling.
I would reccomend an English speaker to complete the form, it is one of the worst written forms I have seen for a while. Obviously written by an English speaker, badly.
One thing I have seen no mention of, is the "phone call". The embassy calls the sponser to make sure they exist and they are sponsoring the applicant. My phone call was the next day after submitting the completed form.
The visa application documents, I have read that you do not get any back except GF's passport. However the visa centre logged all documents submitted and noted the ones to be returned. This in my case was my original birth certificate. It was duly returned with other GF's original documents on collection of visa.
Our fiancee visa processing took 5 1/2 weeks. Some of the other Russian women submitting applications on the same day as my GF had theirs back approved a week earlier.
The best news, my GF collected her fiancee visa last week
I have sent the E ticket for the flight to my GF, booked and paid for in the UK for a one way ticket from Moscow.
We are both of mature years, financially secure with no complicated pasts, so I assume this has helped us a lot.
Good luck to all future applicants, it can be done quite simply.
Sam2me